REAL LOVE: CUPID, VENUS AND THE MYTHS OF LOVE!

We all look for TRUE LOVE or REAL LOVE.  Love is a need. Our life is empty without love. Venus(Aphrodite) and Cupid (Eros) have the keys for true love. Love, love, love… Only four letters with such a magical and tremendous power! Who is able to defeat love? Nobody! That is what THE MYTHS OF LOVE say.

 VENUS AND CUPID WILL DEFEAT ANY HERO OR GOD!

What happened to Pygmalion? Yes, he made a statue and his love made it to have life! Cupid himself was not able to resist love. Apollo, the son of Jupiter, was defeated by love!

All great heroes, who were able to defeat in battles and were braves, were not able to defeat love. Love is the strongest power of the universe! The great Apollo, after defeating the serpent Python, mocked at Cupid and his tiny arrows. Cupid through one of his arrows to the the god. He felt totally in love with Daphne, but she did not get married. Apollo was not able to defeat love, because love is untamed. Love is as it is and not the way you want. Love does not care about race, skin color, reputation, social status, etc. LOVE IS THE POWER WHICH DEFEAT ALL DESIRES AND FANTASIES. You will find a link about THE MYTHS OF LOVE on the bottom for details about Apollo and Daphne and other myths.


 THOSE MYTHS OF LOVE HAVE A MAGICAL ATRACTION BECAUSE LOVE ITSELF IS MAGIC!

Those who think they can mock at love are totally ignorant and arrogant people. They will not ever get real love in their life. They might get attraction, desire, pleasure, but not love. The are doomed to a life without real love.

DO NOT MOCK AT THOSE WHO FEEL REAL LOVE, CUPID MIGH HEAR YOU AND CONDEMNED YOU TO N IMPOSSIBLE LOVE.LET THOSE SOULS TO LOVE EACH OTHER AND WAIT FOR YOUR TURN. DO NOT MOCK AT OTHERS FEELINGS BECAUSE THEY ARE FREE AND SO YOU ARE.

Cupid and Venus are always triumphant! Love eats love and needs love! You who love someone be careful because love comes once a d you cannot play with it because it is like an innocent child (Cupid) who runs away if molested and do not come back!

Venus, the goddess of love, sometimes seems to be cruel; but it is not that way. When she asks for a trial is because she wants to make sure you feel real love. Whoever has real love defeats any trial; but the one who has not real love will always fail!

Oh, you who have that feeling in your heart you must know Venus will come to check if it is real and the trials will become those problems all lovers must defeat!

Oh, week people, who think of yourself more than of your lover, let me tell you this: You will fail the trials of love.
If you never learn to think more of the other person’s happiness you will fail!

Those great MYTHS OF LOVE (Pygmalion and Galatea, Psyche and Cupid, Apollo and Daphne and others) are telling us what real love is.

REAL LOVE IS FOR THOSE WHO LOOK FOR HIS/HER LOVER'S HAPPINESS! 

Life has become so material and people so selfish. We all forgot the power of love. But, we all need that especial person in our life. Money cannot buy love, love comes when the time comes, but it might come with a big mask! Who will be able to know the true face of love? Nobody, but the one who looks for the other person's happiness.

Love is a magical moment that comes with a glance or a simple smile. It is so humble it does not want anything, but happiness.  Cupid is a little kid playing with its small, but powerful arrows. It is innocence because it is pure. Desire is different, it wants selfish  pleasure at any price. Desire is corruption.

True love or real love goes beyond any limit and out of the box of the mind. Concept cannot speak the true nature of love because concepts are limited and true love is not.

True love eats love and wants total love of the other person. It is able to renounce to the loved person if that is better for him/her. It does not matter how much a person suffers as long as the other being is happy, because TRUE LOVE WANTS ONLY ONE THING: HAPPINESS FOR THE OTHER PERSON. Everything else does not matter.





Those who get married thinking the other person will give them what they want are totally wrong, they are not in love. Those who get married thinking to make happy the other person might find true love.

PERFECT LOVE COMES WHEN BOTH FIGHT FOR THE OTHER PERSON'S HAPPINESS. BOTH LEARN TO RESPECT EACH OTHER, TO LIVE IN PEACE AND HARMONY WITH EACH OTHER. THEY CANNOT HARM OR HURT THE PERSON WHO THEY LOVE.

DESIRE IS HUMAN, LOVE IS DIVINE.

 Love is a mystery that hides from corruption and selfishness. Love is sharing and caring. Love is giving, giving, giving. If you are not open to give then you cannot feel true love. Real love do not accept conditions or limitations. Desire brings bitterness, love bring peace. Desire brings tormented mind, love a calmed one. Desire make you suffer when the other person is gone, because desire is attachment. Love suffers when the other person goes, but real love brings resignation.

Desire is a fire which despair anyone till that person get his/her desire satisfied. Real love gives you patience and the only objective is to know the other person is fine. Desire hurst and get tired. Love does not hurt and is always ready to love.

True love might start just as a simple and small flame, but with care it becomes a huge pyre. It can not vanish. It supports all trials. It wait as long as life is. It is never in a rush.

NOBODY CAN PLAY WITH CUPID,

BUT HE CAN PLAY WITH EVERYBODY!

Cupid as a little kid is shy. Nobody can play with him or be rude, otherwise he flies away. Do not let Cupid to go away because it might not come back.

Learn how to treat the person who you love, especially if it is a woman. Women are so especial regarding love and they really deserve love.

WOMEN ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL CREATURES IN THIS PLANET. ALL THEY WANT, ALL THEY NEED IS TRUE LOVE.

CUPID WILL NEVER FORGET HOW YOU TREAT THE ONE YOU LOVE, SO BETTER BE NICE OR ELSE HE MIGHT CONDEMNED YOU TO A LIFE WITHOUT TRUE LOVE.

You must learn how to treat the person you love. Why do you get married and then get divorced? That is not the purpose of a wedding, but to unify to souls who want to be happy making the other soul happier. Love is tender, kind, soft and those should be the weapons you must use to seduce and keep the one you love.

Love does not care about how much you know or how many degrees you got. Love is a matter of making the other person happy. Love is a matter of learning how to make happy the other being. If you do not care about it, then you are not in love, you might have a big attraction, a big desire, but love is not compatible with those two. Actually they are its enemies.

Those who get involved in a relationship because of desire or a mere physical attraction will never find love and will not be happy.

DO NOT EVER PLAY WITH OTHER PERSON'S FEELINGS. THAT IS A FAULT AGAINST LOVE. CUPID WILL TAKE NOTE AND YOU WILL PAY THE CONSEQUENCE.

CAN LOVE BE DEVELOPED?

That is a very nice question. The answer is YES!

Love can start with a simple glance or a shy smile, but it can grow up really strong. One of the main problems of most couples is: THEY FORGET TO WATER THE FLOWER OF LOVE WITH LOVE AND APPRECIATION. Usually, after a few months or so, one of them change. That person stops from being nice, or paying attention (this is really important in a relationship) to the other person, etc.

There are many signs that something is not working. PEOPLE TAKE FOR GRANTED THAT WHAT THEY CALL LOVE. Nevertheless, love can never be taken for granted. It really needs attention. Actually there are many ingredients to feed love. If you do not work on them you will not love and finally a split is the outcome.

SOME INGREDIENTS TO WATER
THE FLOWER OF LOVE:

- ATTENTION. This is really important, especially for a woman. A woman needs to be important in a relationship. Ignoring a woman or a girl will lead to a split, sooner or later. They are very sensitive to feel they count on a relationship. A man who pretends to pay attention does not know women want the real thing. Playing to ignore a woman is for kids and kids. It is a game, but LOVE IS NOT A GAME.

 ALWAYS PAY ATTENTION TO THE PERSON YOU LOVE.

- TENDERNESS AND CARE. We all need a tender love. We need the feeling that someone is there to give us hope or to comfort us. Life is not easy, it brings many problems and relationships are not free of them. Actually problems are part of life and part of any relationship. When times are hard we need hope and comfort. We need to know someone is there for us. Feeling security is important and especially in a relationship.

YOU MUST CARE AND TREAT NICE

THE PERSON YOU LOVE.

- TRUST. A relationship without trust is like a ball on top of a cone. It might fall to any direction at any time. Trust is a vital point in a relationship. It goes on both directions. Trust cannot be taken fro granted. It is so easy to cheat, but think about this: IS IT WORTHY? If it is then think twice. Once you do it you cannot go back and the outcome, usually is LOST OF TRUST and therefore the relationship, even when it goes on, it is not the same anymore.

IF YOU REALLY LOVE THE OTHER PERSON

YOU BETTER BE FAITHFUL.

SOME POISONS TO KILL
THE FLOWER OF LOVE:

- CRITICIZING. This is a horrible habit that kill even good friends. If you want a real good and long relationship you must avoid this bad habit. I know about couples who split because of criticizing. Instead on focusing on the other person's defects you most focus on the positive values of that person. Avoid criticizing to get a good and lasting relationship.

- UNFAITHFULNESS. Yes, I know that is hard. I know it is like a fashion in modern societies. But it does not mean it does not hurt. It is really hard to trust that person again. Yes, you can forgive him/her once. But the matter is you most avoid this, otherwise you might repent sooner or later. Being unfaithful does not mean being civilized. It is just against love and trust. This is simple: You love then you behave.



- VIOLENCE. It is amazing, but we are in the XXI century and there is DOMESTIC VIOLENCE! Where are we living at? What kind of civilization this is? How is that we hurt those who we say we love. Well, actually that cannot be true love. Violence is spreading in all levels. We need to understand the basic principles of kindness and respect. Violence has not justification. There are two types of violence: Physical and emotional. The latter is the worst. Words can hurt even more that a physical punch. STOP VIOLENCE!




MODERN LOVE!

We, people of the XXI century, are becoming more and more materialistic and superficial. Money is the base of everything. Yes, we need money for living; but it is not the source of happiness. It does not matter how much money you get, you cannot but love!

In today's world everyone thinks he/she knows what love is and they think they can love. The facts tell us the opposite. Just check the statistics of divorce or the statistics of domestic violence, etc. We are dreaming of movies, but life is real. There is not such thing as "AND THEY LIVED HAPPY THERE AFTER." The fact is: YOU MUST ON WORKING YOUR RELATIONSHIP. YOU MUST SACRIFICE THINGS FOR LOVE. OTHERWISE, YOUR RELATIONSHIP WILL BECOME AN STATISTIC!

Now little kids say "I love you." But they do not have a clue of what they are saying. Just wait a few days or a few months and the party is over. The outcome is a BROKEN HEART and sometimes even worst: A PERSON WHO CANNOT LOVE ANY LONGER!

Love is what we all need, but I mean: TRUE LOVE! That innocent love which comes from the first experience, a pure love where you give yourself 100%. There is not a second time, because the second time it is not pure or innocent.

You trust 100% the first time, after it you think twice. does it mean you can not love any longer? I did not mean that. It means: Innocence are purity are gone; therefore, you do not trust the same and so quick. The second time and after that you take your time to trust. Yes, yo better be careful to choose and when you think you picked up the rioght person then treat him/her as you wish he/she would treat you.

THE FIRST LOVE CANNOT BE FORGOTTEN! NOT EVEN MODERN LIFE CAN OVERCOME LOVE!

We can love in modern times, but we have to know how to choose and how to treat the other person. Love can be built. It does not die.

THE HEART OF A WOMAN.

Her heart is a lotus flower, it s tender, sweet and fragile.Oh women, you are special and able to make us dream. Your smile, your eyes, your hands, your face... what else can be better? Nothing better than a woman's love.

Women's heart is subtle.It is like a nectar, like a perfume. It is a jewel. Yes, it is.Oh! we men are so insensitive so often. We forget the beautify of a woman, we forget her heart. That is the most valuable aset of any person, specially if that person is a woman.

It does not matter how tough a a man is, he is not strong enough to defeat love. It does not matter what a woman think, when she is in love nothing can stop her.

A woman can be pretty or sexy or both; but her heart is what makes her special. A pretty woman is nice to have, a sexy woman is good to have; but a woman with a real heart is a blessing.

Oh, men! Listen to me: LOVE ALL WOMEN; BUT SPEACIALLY THE ONE WHO HAS A GOOD HEART BECAUSE SHE IS THE ONE! if you prefer the sexy one or the pretty one then you might repent sooner or later.

What if she is pretty, sexy and has a good heart? Then you got all what you want in one person! Then you are blessed and you most appreciate her for ever!

Remember: A woman's heart is a a precious jewel, which value is better than money itself.

Blessed all those women whose heart is full of love!

 Yes, a woman's heart is amazing. Women are not fool, but they know how o forgive. Their love is a balsam for a man's heart!


MORE FROM CULWISDOM:

 MYTHS OF LOVE!

THE MEANING OF SAINT VALENTINE'S DAY.

GODDESSES AND WOMEN: BEAUTY, WISDOM, LOVE AND MORE! 

 NORSE GODS AND MYTHS.

 THE FALL OF MEN.